You mean, besides the obvious? The pleasure of self-love is hardly up for debate here, so let’s focus on the one, the only, magnificent sex toy for men that is a blessing and a curse at the same time. A male masturbator has long been a favorite topic of both prudes and progressivists, kinda upsetting for both. But sex toys, as well as intimacy, are an essential part of our well-being.
As such, male masturbators are finally getting the hype they deserve. With stigma falling away and the char of toxic masculinity wearing off, too, we are talking about male pleasure more and more. And it’s good. Because when we speak about it openly, more men will pay attention to their sexual well-being, and thus, more men will become healthier and happier. And we’re here for that.
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A Good Masturbator Improves Your Well-Being – And Here’s How
We’ve talked about it before, and we’ll keep talking about it over and over and over, I swear – masturbation is awesome. It does a ton of wonderful things for your body mentally and physically, it improves your mood and reduces stress. It even helps repair and uplift your relationships.
And, frankly, there is no good reason not to make that masturbation session feel the best it can via a male masturbator. A good masturbator can do so many things – it simplifies pleasure, it lets you train and overcome insecurities, it lets you explore and find out what works for your body, what feels and doesn’t feel nice.
But there’s more – since masturbation releases endorphins and masturbation with a sex toy releases even more endorphins, it helps relieve stress and even reduce anxiety and symptoms of depression.
Also, a fun perk – masturbation gives you better sleep. The release that comes after you play with a masturbator (or your hand or your partner) can improve the quality of sleep. The relaxation and cool-off period that comes after lulls you to sleep, allowing you to drift off easily and enjoy a restful good night’s sleep.
What’s The Point Of Using A Male Masturbator?
So, back to basics – what actually makes a male masturbator better than your hand? Nothing can move like your hands, and nothing knows the pressure or the rhythm you prefer… right? Well, actually…
Modern masturbators offer anything from striking realism to mind-boggling functions, so your wank-time can be drastically different.
First off, it’s taxing on the wrist, so having an auto-stroking masturbator, for example, do the work for you would be nice. Also, why flex your imagination muscles all the time when you can get a full-size, squeezable, luscious shape that mimics a lover’s body down to curves and silky skin touch? Want a realistic deepthroat on a whim? Push a button. Want it to sync perfectly to the spicy video you’re watching? No problem. The list goes on – there is barely anything these mastur-pals can’t do.
5 Great Benefits Of Literally Any Male Masturbator
Let’s get into the specifics of all those wonderful benefits we’ve brushed over. Is a male masturbator really worth it? See for yourself –
1. A Mood Boost
The rush of endorphins after the big O! actually acts as an antidepressant and significantly reduces stress. Playing with a little stroker in the morning gets your blood flowing and your groove going. When you’re feeling down, self-love might be the last thing on your mind, but whipping a little self-stroking toy would actually really help.
2. Real Pleasure Upgrade
While you think that your experience with your(hand)self is peak pleasure, it’s not. With all those wondrous functions, like suction and regulated tightness, sex toys for men can do way more than you can fantasize about, taking your sensations and upgrading them once and forever.
With adjustable speed, intensity, stroking depth, and vibration, male masturbators blo your expectations of solo time out of the water.
3. You Get To Know Your Fantasies
Any man has so many fantasies – but most of them he’s afraid to live out. For example, if you go rougher, your partner won’t like it. Well, first of all, discuss it, and you might be surprised. Secondly – with a masturbator, you can go as far as you can. You can “paint” realistic toys with your release if that’s your fantasy, or you can take any… alley, one after another, in one session. You can have it “ride” you, “suck” you, etc. – whatever you want to experience, male masturbators will be there to grant your wish.
4. You Begin To Last Much Longer
The more you masturbate, the more you last. It’s a law. Once you add a masturbator to your sexy routine, the sheer intensity of it will act as a form of exercise, improving your overall performance. And that, in turn, will give you a really big confidence boost.
5. More Revered Intimacy
As you become more attuned to your body, you get to share that thrill with your partner. Let them know all about fantasies that set your body ablaze, as well as functions that rock your boat, so to speak. But please don’t hide the toy from your partner! This dialogue has to be open, honest, welcoming, and friendly, and it will definitely lead to better things inside your shared bed.
Speaking Of, How To Introduce Your Partner To Your New Toy?
Please enter this conversation in the right headspace. Sex toys and partners aren’t rivals – they’re teammates! That masturbator isn’t there to replace anyone; it’s there to make the passions roar, to let you experience things you never did, and to eventually add more adventurous fun to things you do in bed. Think of it as a gateway, an aid, a tool for experimenting, enhancing the way you touch and experience one another… not to mention lending a helping hand when stars (and libidos) don’t align.
Sure, it’s normal for your lover to feel a little challenged at first, but with the right approach, they will quickly understand that a masturbator isn’t there to help uncover desires and make your shared moments even more exciting. And when you bring it into the mix together? Oh, it’s magic! It builds trust and turns you into an unstoppable team on a mission to discover new ways to enjoy each other.
The key? Talk about it openly, really listen to each other, and never forget – sex is about joy, connection, and having fun together.
Here are a few easy, low-pressure ways you can bring up the idea of sex toys with your partner:
“What if we tried something a little different?”
Start with a playful hint about wanting to spice things up. Something like: “I came across this thing the other day that could make our nights even more fun – what do you think?”
“Ever heard of something like this?”
If your partner enjoys a good laugh, use humor to break the ice: “So, apparently, there’s this toy that might actually be smarter than me. Should we see what it’s all about together?”
“I think this could be fun for both of us.”
Share your curiosity openly: “I saw this toy, and it really caught my eye. I feel like it could add a cool twist to our time together – what do you think?”
“What’s your take on sex toys?”
Sometimes, being direct works best – just make sure the vibe is relaxed. Maybe bring it up over dinner or during a cozy moment as you cuddle and talk before falling asleep, so it doesn’t feel awkward or too serious.
“I want us to have even more fun together.”
Focus on the why: “I was thinking, this might be a way to make our moments even better. Would you be open to giving it a shot?”
Keep it casual, be open to their perspective, and let it feel like a 2-way conversation, not an awkward pitch.
The Benefits Of Male Masturbators Are Dumb To Deny
So, do you see my point now? There is hardly anything male masturbators cannot do, reinventing your sex life and seriously boosting your overall wellness, too.
Men’s masturbators are like your ultimate wingman (or, well, wing-toy). They don’t just dial up the pleasure – they turn your solo or partnered moments into a full-blown adventure. Seriously, these toys have tricks up their sleeve (he-he) that’ll leave you thinking, “Dang, why didn’t I try this sooner?”
Whether you’re into soft, velvety textures, teasing touches, juicy realistic shapes or overwhelming vibrations that will blow your mind, there’s something for everyone. Is it a trusty sidekick that can take care of you, that is always on time, always a “chef’s kiss” just what you need.
